Monday, 16 December 2024

Bali Then and Now

I have been to Bali 3 times before this trip (December 24).

My first trip was in 1986, yes that’s right, nearly 40 years ago. I spent a month here with my then boyfriend from Australia. No smart phones or internet of course. We booked rooms by turning up and asking to see them and negotiating a price. We consulted the Lonely Planet Guidebook for recommendations where to go, and also from the people we met along the way.

Being only 25 and fit and healthy, we hired bikes to go round. Didn’t know there were so many high hills, so ended up getting the local transport (Bemo’s) up the hills with our bikes coming in with us. Rode down, and after the first steep volcanic descent, were in the bike repair shop fixing the breaks!

It was magical.

In 2004 we took our 2 children back, spent a week or so in a nice resort in Kuta, but then returned to a few spots with them (Lovina and Ubud) and checked out a new place that hadn’t been on the ‘banana pancake trail’ first time, Amed.

2009 saw me back with a new partner who had not been there before. Took him round to some of the same spots and some new ones that had opened up.

Boy has it changed! In particular I recall that driving out of the airport to Kuta it was fields and countryside, now it is built up from the moment you leave the airport.

The biggest change is Gili Trawangan. One of 3 islands off Lombok. In 1986 we had to get a ferry to Lombok and then a small wooden boat out to Gili T (the furthest out island of the 3). There were some wooden and bamboo huts, no road, no horses and carts, no hotels and no restaurants. It was a homestay with a family, who had a couple of rooms for bedrooms, cooked for us in their kitchen and served us the food in a covered hut. We walked round the island and saw noone.


 Gili T Then


Now

Fast forward to 2024, and the next time I visited. Gili T is the ‘party island’ of the 3, as it is now closest to Bali as there are hundreds of boats that come across directly from Bali.

If I didn’t know it was the same place, I would not have believed it. The sandy walkway, has turned into a highway with motorbikes, bicycles and horses and carts. There are hotels and restaurants practically all the way round, and piles of rubbish in the middle. ‘Foam parties’ and ‘pub crawls’ are advertised galore.




Then



Now

I hated it to be honest. I am a tourist, but look what we have done to some places. There is no answer, because we all want to visit what we hear are wonderful places, but our presence, despite giving locals income, has more often than not spoiled it.

On this visit (2024) I went to Gili Air from Gili T, which in 1986 had more infrastructure than Gili T because it was the closest from Lombok, but now is the furthest from Bali, and much quieter. There are still horses and carts and rubbish, but it has a much nicer feel that Gili T.


Saturday, 14 December 2024

Bali Recommendations and Itinerary

4 Dec to 1 Jan 2025

Nusa Penida - 3 nights – Crystal Bay Bungalows - recommended

Gili Trawangan - 3 nights – Sea Shell Resort – not recommended

Gili Air - 6 nights – Unzipp Bungalows - recommended - but ask for one of the concrete rooms, not the wooden ones or the 2 igloo ones at the back

Candidasa – 3 nights – Puri Okra Beach Bungalows – ok but can probably find better, if staying ask for downstairs

Legian – 3 nights – Hotel Grand Kumala - ok

Sanur – 8 nights – Puri Sadang Hotel - recommended - ask for room 110 or the other one on its own at the back

Other

Amok Sunset Bar, Nusa Penida - infinity pool, swing and seat for pictures, 2 for 1 cocktails from 3pm to 6pm. 

Driver, Deka WhatsApp +62 812 3692 3338 (lives near Candidasa)

Health

My symptoms first started in December 22 when I was in the Antarctic. I was spending the night on land and laid down to sleep and felt an earthquake. I sat bolt up right to see if anybody else had felt it, and everyone else was just acting normally. Thought nothing more of it. 

I started feeling my bed shake when I went to bed at night, I thought it must be the fan I had installed underneath making the bed shake.

It took me a good year to work out that the shakes were inside my body and not external. I still continued to think nothing much of it. 

In October 24, I was on holiday in Morocco and then when I got to London, I started feeling it more often, and my feet started to feel like they were fizzing. Not pins and needles, like little bubbles in my feet. 

Of course I Googled it, who wouldn't, especially as I wasn't home and couldn't see the doctor. Inner tremors, it's called, and Google tells me it's multiple sclerosis, essential tremors or Parkinson's. Not good. 

When I got home I went to see the doctor, I've had multiple sclerosis ruled out, it's not a tumour or a heart thing, but it's definitely neurological. I was given a referral to a neurologist and told to go on my trip and book a visit to the neurologist if it gets worse, or I have more symptoms. 

Of course I'm anxious and upset about what it could be, but decided to carry on anyway and deal with whatever comes up. I don't really have a choice. 

This is me



I am a 63 year old retired female, living in Sydney, originally from London.

I have rented out my house, given away or sold all of my furniture, and everything I own is in about 45 boxes in storage and 2 suitcases in my car, which I left with a friend.

I love to travel, have travelled all my life. Since Covid, and cutting back on work, I've been on 8 long overseas trips.

I have always wanted to live overseas in different countries for a more extended time. I wanted to do it with a partner, but I have no partner so does that mean I can’t do it at all? No. I thought about it for a while and it was suggested I just rent my house out while I travel so I can live on the rent and my retirement income, without making any irrevocable decisions.

I thought it was a good idea, but wasn’t quite ready to ‘launch’ myself. But then 2 things happened. One friend developed a neurodegenerative disease, and a second friend went from health to dead in 10 weeks with pancreatic cancer. What was I waiting for?

I had a friend living in my house and gave him notice to move out. It happened quicker than I expected, and I ended up with 6 weeks to sell my things, pack the house and plan a ‘senior gap year’.

I am not new to travelling the world, I hitchhiked round Europe when I was 18 and went backpacking to Australia and South East Asia in my 20’s. I’ve not travelled solo extensively since then, and this will be new to me.

In-between planning this trip and setting out on 4 December 2024 to Bali, I have developed some concerning neurological symptoms. See Health page for more detail. I may have a degenerative neurological disease. 

I decided to carry on anyway. This is the best time to go away, while I am still able to as I don’t know what the future holds.